Jim Pace not only is a clone of Scott Van Pelt from ESPN but he's also a pastor and lead navigator at [nlcf] in Blacksburg, VA and author of Should We Fire God? to be released April 8, 2010
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So, yes, in case you didn’t hear, Blacksburg has the distinct “honor” of hosting a group of protesters from Westboro Baptist Church. If you aren’t familiar with the name of the church itself, they are the “godhatesfags” people. Let me give them the chance to tell you why they are coming. The following is an excerpt from their website.
Virginia Tech N. Main St. & E. Roanoke St. (SW Corner) WBC to picket Virginia Tech to connect the dots. God sent the killer because of your proud sin! You raise your kids to believe they can disobey God with impunity, and that His commandments are all on the table to be disposed of whenever you please. That’s why they think fornication, adultery, and sodomy are all just in good fun (instead of the filthy practices they are), and that’s why the wrath of God is on them. God is cursing you by killing those same children that you have lied to all their lives. VA Tech was just GodSmacked — another of your students murdered — and you still refuse to heed and obey the standards of God. Woe unto you! “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness…!” Isa. 5:20. You’re going to Hell, and you’re taking your kids with you.
Ahh… if it wasn’t so offensive and if it didn’t deal with such painful memories, it would almost be funny.
As the fact that they were coming has settled in, I, and many other leaders in NLCF and other local churches and ministries, have been asked what our response is going to be to the protest. The suggestions have ranged from completely ignoring the whole deal to some things that verge on the illegal. 
The question, are they accurate in their perspective of why these horrible events seem to keep happening here? is easily answered with a very loud NO. Understanding how to respond in a Christlike way to them is a bit more difficult. We need to reflect carefully to come up with a response that blends the purity of God with the love of God. Obviously, the best blending of qualities that we can look to is Jesus.
Three different possible responses to their protest have received the most attention, so here are my thoughts on each.
On the issue of aligning with a plan that will raise money for groups that are not specifically Christian groups.
The most widely accepted plan for responding to the Westboro protestors is to put up a table near each of their protest locations, then raise money for the groups they are protesting. Personally I love this idea. It takes the opportunity they are creating to produce something good. Love it, love it, love it.
Some that I have spoken with are concerned because the groups we will be raising money for are not Christian groups. When reflecting on an issue like this one, I think that we look to how Jesus interacted with non-Jewish people or those who weren’t following the Jewish code in his day. Clearly those people were doing things that God didn’t want them to do, just like any of us. But Jesus went straight for them. Now we don’t know what jokes he laughed at when he was at the parties that earned him the label of friend of drunks, and which ones he would have turned away from, but we know that the people at those parties liked him. They sensed an acceptance from him. To me, that is important. I feel compelled by this to be as involved with as many groups as we can possibly be. There are many groups that are pursuing aspects of the reality God is calling us to be a part of, they just aren’t doing it out of devotion to him. I believe we should look to see where we can link up in cases like this, certainly there would be reasons that would make that desire impossible, but I haven’t seen anything in what we are raising money for that rises to that level in any way.
Also, the shootings were a very communally felt moment for us all. I feel that to come together in responding to this protest is the right thing for us to do.
On the issue of concern about sending a thank-you note to Westboro Baptist Church.
An additional component of the raising money plan was to potentially send WBC a thank you note. The note would thank them for giving us the opportunity to raise money for those groups and give them the amounts we were able to raise. Obviously, there is a bit of sarcasm in there, and personally, I like the idea. But I have been hearing very good points that it is an unnecessary slam on them. That it seems cruel.
All I can say on that one is that the arguments against sending the thank you note are very solid. Because we are cooperating with what the university’s student government is doing, we at NLCF don’t control whether or not it is sent anyway. Ultimately I am cool either way. In a great book, The Humor of Jesus, many of Jesus’ puns and one liners are brought more to light. I think Jesus took little shots here and there to make his point. He never did it passive aggressively, he was always moving towards an overt point and the zingers were used to make the point another way. So, I can get behind the letter as that zinger, and I can respect the opposing viewpoint. I am cool either way.
On the issue of showing love to the protestors.
Some have suggested that if we really want to show counter-cultural love to WBC, we should seek to serve them in some way. Give them water, food… all Ex-Lax free. :) Personally I love the question of how do we love them, as we are called to love our enemies, but I disagree with this way of doing it.
The more I reflect on it, the more I sense the Westboro protestors should be seen as modern-day Pharisees. They are sporting a very false righteousness and in the process, they are almost completely missing what God is doing. Jesus told the actual Pharisees that they picked up on some parts of truth and missed others entirely. Very much what the WBC people are doing. So, if we look at Jesus’ response to them, he tended to express grace towards them in other ways. As I have reflected on the gospels, I tend to notice that he goes after them in response to their accusations, their attempts at entrapment. It doesn’t seem like he seeks these moments out so much as he responds what they are trying to do to him. So I don’t think we should plan to go after them verbally or otherwise.
While I like the concept of handing out water to them, and LOVE the fact that the question of how do we love our enemies in this context is being asked, I would suggest we not do that. One reason is that Jesus’ strongest words seemed to be reserved for those who were misrepresenting the truth about God. People that should know better. He said it would be better to tie a stone around your neck and drown yourself than intentionally mislead people about the faith. He called the Pharisees one of the most unclean things they would have known in their day. He referred to them as nicely painted tombs, places where bodies were decaying. His point was that they way they were calling others to be clean rendered them unclean. They were focusing on an outward show and missing the centrality of inward humility and faith. Strong stuff.
One thing we need to understand is, that was grace. Jesus was showing them grace by speaking very directly to what was warring against their souls. Hatred and arrogance like the Pharisees and the WBC folks demonstrate is not neutral to your heart, it tears them apart. Exposing that for what it is, is love. I think the other way Jesus showed grace was by allowing anyone (for example Nicodemus,) to come and be helped. He didn’t say, “You are one of them, get out of here!” He would allow ANYONE to come to him if they came with a heart of humility. That is why you see him talking to prostitutes, alcoholics, blue collar workers, white collar workers, people from the lowest strata in society to the very highest, and also to Pharisees.
But, if you challenged him in arrogance, whatever you were: a rich young ruler, a scribe, or one of his own brothers, you got the challenge right back.
Jesus also had very challenging words for those who used the power they had been given wrongly. He truly cares about how we use the power that is available to us. I don’t believe that the Westboro protesters seek God in faith and humility before they decide to protest every site they travel to. And I don’t think they would be willing to speak to those they have hurt with any sense of godly love.
I believe they have become what they claim to be against. I believe they have become a protest organization that claims it speaks on behalf of God, whether he would have them speak or not. They are not open to being in community with other churches and they are not willing to submit to the broader body of Christ. I believe they protest simply because that is what they do. I feel that they have become a protest organization.
The way I think this works out is like this… We don’t come with water or any other affirming gesture, or with aggressive posturing. If any of the WBC people show a desire to speak or come to us in humility and honesty, we should be prepared to respond with love. If anyone else in the crowd begins to attack them, if the police aren’t there, we defend the Westboro people. We pray for them in faith that God is capable of showing them the error in what they are doing.
It would also do us well to make sure that we aren’t the same type of person that they are. Are we willing to allow others to speak to the deep parts of our lives? Are we willing to allow others to show us how our lives could more reflect the love and life of Christ?
God, please be with us as we go through this.
Jim
As I write this post, I sit in 435,709th place in overall sales on barnesandnoble.com. I know what you are probably thinking… Jim, that means that there are only 435,708 books that are sold through barnesandnoble.com that have sold more than Should We Fire God?! That only puts you 78,949 places behind Stu Campbell’s Mulch It! A Practical Guide to Using Mulch in the Garden and Landscape! 
And you would be right. But I want Stu’s spot.
Here is how we take that coveted 356,760th spot. Yes, his book came out in 2000 and yes, mine technically isn’t officially released. But come on, Stu has been too comfortable for too long.
First of all, I am beyond grateful to everyone who has asked me how they can help the book out. So many of you have been encouraging and willing to do whatever you can. That is really great. For those who are interested… Here is the plan…
For the next 3 – 4 weeks, anyone that can get the book at an actual store, that would be a big help. Nothing encourages them ordering more books than selling those they have, eh? If you are near the Blacksburg VA area and want to show me some HUGE love, I will be having a book signing at Books-a-Million on April 27 at 7pm. The ideal thing would be to buy the book that night. But even if you don’t get it then, please bring the one you already have! Many of you have asked me about a signing and I said I didn’t want to do one. The reason I changed my mind was that this is more of a way to speak bookstores’ language. If I have this signing and get a few hundred people to come, it will make a big impact on the store, they will report back to other BAM’s…
If you aren’t in the area, then any bookstore that carries it will help me out.
Now, if the cash is running tight right now. You can save a few bucks if you get it online. Even with shipping, you can save a few dollas that way. You can feel free to hit up any online bookseller (they should all be carrying it). You can also get it as an audio book, ebook or for the Kindle on amazon.com.
Here are some ideas that are TOTALLY FREE!
Pray. I have been praying that God would guide 50,000 people to get the book and that many more would be impacted by it. I don’t have the space on this post to share my theology of that number. Suffice it to say that before I knew that a publisher would even buy it, it has been the number I have been praying for. And it is NOT a number that will make me rich,so it isn’t for that. Care to join me? My goal is to try to let as many people as possible know about the book, and then they can decide for themselves whether they will buy it. I am just trying to get the word out.
Join the Facebook fan page for the book. The more people that are on that page, the better, should people stop by it to check the book out. In the true sense of quid pro quo, if you send me a fan page you want me to join… I will return the love!
Mention the book in a couple of Facebook posts, tweets, blog posts, or decorative wall hangings. I am also willing to advertise in mulch at your house if I can do so without pushing Stu even further up the charts.
Suggest others you know take a look at the trailer for the book. Take a look at it yourself. Robbie Poff shot it, and he personally guarantees it will change everything you don’t like about your life. He promises.
Once you have read it, post a review on one or more of the internet bookseller sites. You can also click that the review was helpful. Easy peasy.
Again, thank you so much for doing whatever you can. If you write a book… quid pro quo…count on me doing anything I can for you. And really, who can ever have enough quid pro quo?
Peace.
Be Hope To Her 2010
I wanted to let you know about something that a good friend of mine has been working with for several years. The organization is called Nuru International. Nuru is the Kiswhahili word for “light,” and Kiswahili is the language of the Kuria people of Kenya. My friend, Billy Williams, has devoted himself to this very interesting and innovative organization that is committed to pioneering holistic and sustainable solutions to end extreme poverty in partnership with the poor. As the national grassroots director, he has the opportunity to see the hope of Nuru spread. This year, Virginia Tech is hosting a “Be hope to her” fundraiser. I guarantee it isn’t like any you have been to before, so if you are in the area, please consider coming out and very much becoming a hope to her. Billy, take it away!
Last year, Nuru International hosted its first nationwide extreme poverty awareness event and campaign. It was an experiential event designed to raise awareness and empathy for the daily routine of hundreds of women and girls in the developing world. We called it “Be Hope To Her.” The event had nearly 1000 people participate on 11 college campuses, and raised over $36,000 that led to the drilling of four deep water wells in Kuria, Kenya and thousands of changed lives.
This year, we are pleased to announce that there are twenty four colleges who are participating in the event (including one in Florence, Italy). We also have three city-wide events happening in SoCal, Seattle, and Pittsburgh.
So what is it all about? In essence, it’s an event about being hope. Over 2.4 billion people go daily without nearby access to safe, clean, drinking water. Women and girls in these communities are usually charged with the task of gathering the water for their families as a daily practice. Imagine spending three hours of your day gathering water so you and your family can have it to drink, to bathe, to do laundry, to wash dishes. Imagine if that water were contaminated and needed boiled before anyone could drink it. Imagine not being able to attend school because you had been charged with this task for the sake of your family’s survival. It doesn’t have to be this way. In fact, you can be part of the generation that stands up and says enough is enough, and chooses to make a difference.
Recently, I was reading a blog from our water and sanitation program manager, Nicole Scott, that talked about how life
has changed in Kuria since the drilling of wells in the community. One of the stories told was about kids at one of the schools where the wells were drilled. The teachers said that the kids are playing now instead of running into the bush to try to find water during recess. This statement really hit me personally. I started thinking back to elementary school and recess. I can remember running, playing football, tag, and kickball, and just all around having a good time with friends. I remember running myself into a frenzy knowing that at the end of recess, everyone in my class would line up at a water fountain (I think the fountain was in my classroom too), and get a drink of water before settling back into class. What would it have been like if there were no drinking fountains in my school. What if my recess was spent looking for ANY water source near the school? What would my concentration level have been like in the classroom? It seems utterly unthinkable that anyone in the modern era would have to deal with this on a daily basis. (more…)
Like most that live around Virginia Tech, the anniversary of the shootings can seem to hang over my head. But now there is something else.
Westboro Baptist Church is coming into town. The delightful gang that started the godhatesfags website and has recently been picketting funerals of everyone from soldiers who have been killed in action, to those of children that have been killed by cars. At all of them the theme is the same, “God hates you and what you are doing. You (or someone else) caused this.”
Seems their schedule is flexible enough to fit us in. Wonderful. Here is their itenerary while they are in the area.
So now, those of us in leadership of just about any group are asking ourselves the question, what do we do to respond to what they do? I have heard great ideas that range from simply being somewhere else and not giving them any audience, to some that are suggesting we aggressively protest them.
The question I have is, what is a thoughtful Christ-like response to thoughtless rantings? At [nlcf], we are kicking around a number of ideas right now. In the next few days we will list out what we are suggesting. I am sure we will also want to be as involved as possible in the local and university’s response to all this is going to be.
So, what do you think we should do? What would you suggest? Why would you suggest it?
~~ I have just removed the hotlink to the WBC site at the suggestion of a web-savvy-internet-guru friend named Liz! She felt it was best to not make it easier/enticing for people to go to the site and essentially help their numbers stay high.
Christopher Hitchens and I don’t agree on a great deal. He has written a number of books, God is not Great, Why Orwell Matters, and The Missionary Position: Mother Teresa in Theory and Practice, among many others. I like his writing style but I disagree with almost every position he takes. But I saw an article he wrote on Slate, and have to say that I agree with an awful lot of it. He is dealing with the repeated reports of covering up child sex abuse by priests in the Catholic Church. If you haven’t read Hitchens before, you will notice his characteristic overstatements, but, his argument is a very fair one. Let me know what you think. Is he being fair or not?
Take it away Christopher…
Some very cool things are happening with the publicity for the book! Interview requests are pouring in, looks like a trip to NYC is in the works to do some network stuff! Very, very cool.
Here is an interview I did with JR Briggs. You may remember that I stole his quote for the blog yesterday. If you shoot over to take a look at his review, you might want to nose around the rest of the site. A very cool thing they are doing outside of Philly. JR, thank you for sharing some bandwidth with me… I am enclosing his interview here as I cannot get the hotlink to work. What can I say? I am a computer guru.
My friend Jim Pace pastors [nlcf] a church in Blacksburg, VA just off the Virginia Tech campus. Jim is a stud. But it takes a lot of grace to love Jim since I grew up in Charlottesville rooting for the University of Virginia (however, since the Cavaliers have been so mediocre in sports the past few years it’s been a very humbling experience being around Tech fans).
[nlcf] is a part of the Ecclesia Network and I have the privilege of serving on the board of directors with him. Jim recently wrote a book called Should We Fire God? (check it out here). I’m so excited for this book to release soon.
Rather than me telling you about the book, I’ll have Jim answer a few questions in his own words.
J.R.: I had the privilege of reading the manuscript a few months ago and was stirred by what you wrote. Tell us a little bit about the book.
Jim: Well, my mom loves it. I mean, she really does. Promises to buy at least two copies.
In all seriousness, it was something I did to try to work through some of the questions that we cannot help but have in our culture of instant, high-definition news. We see the suffering that is swirling around us with a level of clarity that requires we ask certain questions of God. Questions like why are you allowing this level of suffering God? Why don’t you get in the game and take care of some of this, or if this is the kind of god you are, why would I ever have any interest in connecting with you?
It’s quite a provocative title. Tell us a bit about how you landed on the title – and the topic of the book for that matter.
The book is a discussion of the question, Is God doing a good enough job at his end of the bargain to remain on the job? Should we fire God? I actually wanted the title “Firing God” but no one that I shared it with really liked it, so wiser minds suggested posing it as a question, hence, Should we fire God? The idea came from a friend who does not believe in God asking me if I thought God could ever do something bad enough, or allow enough horror to occur, that I would ever just walk away from him.
Publishers talk a lot about ‘target audience’ in thinking about specific books. Describe the type of person to which your book is written.
This one was a bit different because it really didn’t fit to many of the models that are out there. I am sure every author feels their book is “truly different”, right? I have heard from Christian publishers that it is too aggressively written for what they would consider to be a classically Christian audience. And I have heard from a secular publisher that it is a bit to “Jesus-y” (my word) for their audience.
What I suspect is that it will actually appeal to a pretty wide audience. People that are frustrated by answers that seem too pat and easy will hopefully like that I really try to share the wrestling that I and many others go through in these areas. One of the more common responses I have gotten to those who have read it is that they feel like I get their level of frustration. That I get them. But they also seem to like that I don’t get stuck in hopelessness. That someone can question deeply and meaningfully and yet still have hope.
That is high praise.
But I have also found that those who don’t follow Jesus have liked it as a more in-depth explanation of His side of the issue. A couple of those readers have responded back to me that they had never considered a particular angle pertaining to God before. I have heard it has been helpful in their reflection about Christ. It is also an honor to have that said of something that I have written.
Overall, I think people that take issue with how much suffering occurs in our world and are curious about God’s role in all of it, I think they will connect with the book.
During the writing projects I’ve worked on, I have often described the process as giving birth literarily. What was the writing process like for you? Did you enjoy it? Was it difficult?
Writing is more fun and much more difficult than I expected. Since I teach regularly at my church, I am familiar with writing. So I am accustomed to the process, but I learned quickly this was a very different bird. The great fun of this project was the depth that I could explore this topic with. 64,972 words lets you go pretty deep!
So, writing is a lot of fun. Editing sucks. After correcting likely two or three hundred mistakes, with my use of dashes and semi-colons alone, I still would struggle to tell you what the rule is. Grammar is a cruel mistress.
You spend a lot of time in the book describing the horrific events of the Virginia Tech shootings and how your faith community has – and continues to – struggle with the pain and heartache. Was it at all therapeutic for you to write about the events in such vivid detail?
I think the expected thing is to say yes. I would probably answer that way most of the time. In our rapid fire culture, contemplation is not a natural part of life. So my experience is that anytime I can carefully reflect, my life is richer for that. So that was the good side. But there were other times that it felt very dark. I walked through suffering that happened here and around the globe, presently and in the past. Honestly, there were times when life started to feel quite heavy and hopeless.
So, to answer your question, it was both therapeutic and traumatic at the same time. Where that started and stopped, I don’t honestly know.
Tragedies of that magnitude shape and mark indelibly. How have you personally been shaped the most by the events of that day?
I have always been a nuance guy. The kind that always tries to see the shades of gray in an issue. Where others might see things as a black and white issue, I can tend to notice inflection. This experience has in some ways made that tendency stronger and in other ways, weaker.
I have seen suffering up close and have had to stare at it much longer than I ever would have wanted to. I have talked to people who had to remove the bodies from the classrooms. They spoke about hearing the cell phones in the pockets and book bags of the victims ringing incessantly. People desperately hoping that person would pick up and the Rescue personnel knowing they never would.
But I have also heard story after story about people who were, seemingly out of nowhere, led to pray for Virginia Tech in the days and weeks leading up to the shootings. One guy passed a girl on campus a few days before the shootings and felt a very strong urging to pray for her. He did, not really understanding why she got stuck in his mind like that. A few days after the shootings, he saw her again, but this time it was on the listing of the victims.
People from all around the country talking about how they had been led to pray for Va. Tech. God was doing something in all that.
I remember one morning about a week after the shootings waking up so refreshed and happy, but only for a moment. I had been dreaming about how someone had called me and told me that they were going to step up and lead our church through everything from that point on. I and my co-pastors could step aside and let them do it.
The great feeling drained away as I realized it was only a dream. But in that moment I felt the strongest sense from God saying to me, Yes it is terrible, and it won’t go away quickly. But I am with you, you have enough strength through me for your part. Walk in it.
Those things take a lot of the nuance off of evil, God seems to take it very seriously, and the harm it can cause us even more so. I have seen up close that even though he isn’t stopping it all, he is far from idle. It made things much less theoretical, it made them real.
How are you pastoring your community differently after the tragedy than you were before it?
I am probably more understanding of people when they suffer, I can relate to more of the world’s hurt. And I am more clear than ever that God is calling me to be an agent of change in this world.
Anything else you’d like to share with us about you? the book?
I guess, I was trying to have something that doesn’t back away from answering questions that can be answered. Sometimes the truth needs to be stated. Simply stated.
But I also tried to be fair with the complexity and difficulty of the process. It isn’t an easy one. Too many Christians have tried to answer too many questions with too simple of an answer. I tried to honor the dignity of the question, of the suffering that has caused the question, share some thoughts, and then hopefully get out of the way so that the person asking and the transcendent God of all universes, can take it from there.
I guess time will tell whether or not that is just what I wanted to do, or if that is what I did.
Also, I would want people to know this isn’t a book about a particular tragedy – but about tragedy itself and how we and God deal with it. Likewise, it isn’t just about the suffering we went through at Va. Tech, but about how we deal with suffering in our world today, and God’s part in that. It is much broader than one experience but it is clearly set within that experience.
When does the book come out and where can readers pick up a copy?
It comes out 4.8.2010 but is available for pre order now at Amazon, Barnes and Noble… just about anywhere. Amazon has it available for the Kindle which is awesome, and Oasis is publishing it as an audio book, read by yours truly. Warning with audio version… I tried to convince them to let me read it using my Charlton Heston or Dr. Evil voice, but they wouldn’t let me. So, it’s just me.
A good friend of mine, JR Briggs (lead pastor and cultural cultivator of The Renew Community), shared some words that Eugene Peterson wrote. JR and I serve on the board of Ecclesia together and he rapidly has become someone that I respect and whose company I enjoy. He grew up in the Charlottesville VA area, which has created some tension as I attended Va. Tech, he also is a pipe-smoker which I personally consider an unnecessary ostentation and labor intensive. Beyond that, he is a good guy.
Eugene Peterson shared these words that we can always deconstruct based on local church practice, or theological nuance. But I don’t think that is the point. I think the point is that we just hear them and be humbled by them.
“The biblical fact is that there are no successful churches. There are, instead, communities of sinners, gathered
before God week after week in towns and villages all over the world. The Holy Spirit gathers them and does his work in them. In these communities one of the sinners is called pastor and is given a designated responsibility in the community. The pastor’s responsibility is to keep the community attentive to God.”
-Eugene Peterson
I know that I am very fortunate. Throughout this entire book process I have been blessed to have many people that are very well connected really like the book and want to help me out. As a result I am getting offers for interviews left and right, magazines, blogs, and offers to speak at churches to get the word out. I have been humbled by all of it.
It has been a struggle too. I have a longstanding struggle with success. Sometimes I like and want it too much, other times things are fine. I definitely swing back and forth on that one. One way that struggle shows itself is that I have felt very strange telling people about the different interview opportunities, speaking engagements, you name it, that have come with this process of releasing the book.
I have been challenged by good friends to get over myself and to just let people know what is happening. I have been told that everyone is perfectly capable of checking out the links or skipping right over them. Proverbs tells us that “wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” I have very good friends who are willing to care about me enough to help me to get over myself.
If this is the last book I ever write, I am perfectly fine with that. Well, almost perfectly fine with that. If this is the start of a writing gig that becomes a part of my ministry here that would be great too. Either way, here I am. Getting over myself. For at least a while.
One of the more recent interviews was with Russell Trunk who is the Director and Editor in Chief of ExclusiveMagazine.com. Russell has interviewed Guy Ritchie, Peter Jackson, Nicolas Cage, and Sarah Silverman; among many others. I know, I know, “which one of these is not like the other?” running through your head too? He also has interviewed some authors I respect quite a bit, and… drum roll please… Air Supply! For real, Air Supply!
Russell was actually very gracious and asked some very in-depth questions. I love it when the interviews get into the guts of these tough issues, Russell very deftly did just that.
Here is the interview with me. In the interest of being someone who is over themselves, I will be posting more of my interviews and whatnot here. Probably not all of them, but then, getting completely over myself takes time right?
Thanks for all your support through this. Remember, April 8 is just around the corner! In gratitude for your prayer and help in all this… I give you a very special gift. Just drink it all in. Let it waft over you…. ahhhh….
Your welcome, Jim
I remember watching “Lost Boys” and wishing I could have the life that Corey Haim had. He was a successful actor, was much better looking than me, seemed so sure of himself, and was rich! I remember him being interviewed time after time on show after show. He had it all. I would have traded a lot at the time to jump into his life and give him mine.
Just another reminder for me that I can often wish I had what I don’t understand. The fame that I was idolizing eventually tore his life apart. The wealth that I was jealous of bought him into a world of drug use that he never meaningfully shook.
I am saddened that he couldn’t pull his life together and for the consequences of that lack.
So many times I have been angry at life or God for not giving me more. So much of my twenties was spent struggling to understand who Christ is and who I was in all that. It was very difficult and at times I handled that difficulty well and other times very poorly. But that tough decade was a blessing. I learned to turn to God for my strength, I learned that my failings were evident to most people that were paying attention, so I should stop trying to hide them. I learned to be who God made me to be and to stop wishing I was something else.
I continue to struggle with seeing myself the way God does. But as i walk closer to him, I see the wisdom of his approach more.
Now, I wish Corey’s life had been a bit more like mine.
Jim not know this. Makum sense to Jim tho. Jim greatful for chance to lern… 
(Yes, for those of you who are old enough, I am going old school… 1966 Tarzan series-esque, Ron Ely… )
Evolutionary psychologist Satoshi Kanazawa at the the London School of Economics and Political Science correlated data on these behaviors with IQ from a large national U.S. sample and found that, on average, people who identified as liberal and atheist had higher IQs. This applied also to sexual exclusivity in men, but not in women. The findings will be published in the March 2010 issue of Social Psychology Quarterly. — Elizabeth Landau CNN
Take a look at the rest of the study here.
It takes just a couple of minutes to see how skewed the interpretations on this study are. You cannot be sure that it was intended to slam those with a belief in God. But, we can be sure that the data was analyzed by someone who didn’t understand Christians. Some of the quotes in the article are just silly. Fun, fun, fun…
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