Yesterday someone said something to me that bugged me. Â It doesn’t matter who it was or what they said. Â I know this person cares about me and respects me. Â I am sure of it in fact. Â But they did. Â Said something that got me frustrated with them.
It was such a small comment.
But I felt offended a bit, insulted. Â I did however apply Prov 12.16 to the situation. Â It says a fool shows their annoyance at once but the prudent overlook an insult. Â That is something I try to do when I am frustrated. Â It helps me to not get into unnecessary arguments when they can be avoided, and many times I have discovered that the person who said the annoying thing didn’t mean anything by it. Â They meant no offense.
It was the right thing to do.
But later that day I ended up saying something much more thoughtless to someone else. Â I never meant my words to be hurtful but they were. Â An off-hand remark that I didn’t even notice at the time, but as soon as I was told about it I hurt for them. The person I said it to very graciously brought it up to me privately later. Â They offered grace before I even had time to ask for it.
My realization of how easily I can hurt someone with my words makes me desire to offer grace all the more. Â What I receive I want to give.
Peace, Jim
